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L*********2 years agoConflict with Colleague

我该怎么做?

在某公司工作了接近10年了,内部人事问题一直存在,老板最近越发偏心,某同事有冲突,我突然觉得做的很不开心,我也没有吵只是拿假去自己消化情绪,老板说有问题可以提出 大家可以一起解决,但是当我跟老板提出我的问题时,老板只是说我想太多,敏感了,然后把我说的话跟那个去冲突的同事说或者是跟其他同事也说了,变成大家都知道我的问题,我理解的解决问题 应该是我和起冲突的同事一起三口六面谈然后解决,但是老板只把我这边的资讯讲出去 那起冲突的同事就开始对我更加阴阳,而我感觉开始被孤立 因为本来老板就更偏向那个同事 所以新人或Junior会更跟那个senior更好,因为跟老板喜欢的senior一定不会被骂,而我远离他们的时候 老板会在背后说我不合群 整色整水,而我只是不想靠近他们 因为对方阴阳我时 我是知道的 ,senior很厉害 会在老板不在的时候阴阳我 导致老板觉得是我太敏感? 因为老板只相信自己看到/听到 或者可以说选择性的相信那个senior,而我就是那个搞?棍,而老板对我说的话就很好听 背后又是另外一套说辞 ,我想辞职 这种氛围下工作让我感觉很辛苦很累 因为上班时间不短 但被阴阳的时间至少有8小时吧 (上班时间超过8小时)甚至我休息的时候 我都只想睡觉 没有了生活没关系 我试图给予热爱在这份工作上 但是被几个人一起阴阳 我觉得我快要有忧郁症了,每天上班不是准备去好心去做生意,而是要准备看人脸色 听人阴阳怪气。最主要的是 我跟老板说了问题 老板置之不理 然后说我多心 因为他只相信一个人说的而已,而对方阴阳我时 我却没有证据 因为对方是跟其他人聊天时 讲话带刺的,就是说给我听的,老板不在 他更加严重 老板在就不这么做、因为他懂老板不喜欢 所以当我跟老板说这些问题时 我得到的回应就是我多心,所以我该辞职吗?真的做的很累了
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Michelle Tan2 years ago
It sounds like you are facing a difficult situation at work. Feeling unhappy and unsupported can be incredibly challenging, and it's understandable that you are considering resigning. Before making a decision, it's important to weigh the pros and cons and consider all possible options. Resigning should be a last resort if you have exhausted all other avenues for resolution. Here are a few steps you could take: 1. Document incidents: Keep a record of any conflicts or instances where you feel mistreated or isolated. Include dates, times, and details of what happened. This documentation will serve as evidence if needed in the future. 2. Request a meeting: Ask for a meeting with your boss to discuss your concerns in a calm and professional manner. Use your documented incidents to back up your claims and explain how the current situation is affecting your work performance and overall well-being. 3. Seek support: Reach out to a trusted colleague, mentor, or HR representative within your company. Share your experiences and seek their advice on how to handle the situation. They may be able to provide guidance or advocate for you during this challenging time. 4. Explore internal mechanisms: Check if your company has any formal procedures or policies in place for resolving conflicts or addressing internal issues. This might include mediation sessions or speaking to a higher-level manager or HR representative. 5. Consider external options: If internal avenues do not lead to a satisfactory resolution, you could explore seeking advice from an employment lawyer or external mediation services to understand your legal rights and options. Ultimately, the decision to resign is a personal one that depends on your individual circumstances and the level of impact on your mental and emotional well-being. It may be helpful to also consider alternative job opportunities before making a final decision. Remember to prioritize your own self-care and well-being throughout this process. Good luck!
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