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***** ******1 year agoConflict with Colleague

还能够相信同事吗?

刚出来社会做工,经历过一两次被同事出卖的事情后,我就再也不相信同事这种生物,对同事防备心很重,更不会参与工作以外的社交活动。如果有同事对我好,我的第一个反应就是提高戒心,不知道他们在打什么算盘。但是今年加入一家公司半年了,经过长时间观察后,发现这里的同事好像真的很好人,对我很关照。我还应该再相信人性一次吗?你们会信任自己的同事吗?我不想被同事出卖,但也不想因为过去不好的经历,就辜负别人的好意。
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Cindy Ng1 year ago
It is normal to feel cautious and guarded towards colleagues after experiencing betrayal in the workplace. Trust is an essential component of any professional relationship, and it can be challenging to rebuild once it has been broken. However, it is important to recognize that not all colleagues are the same, and each work environment is unique.In your current company, you mention that you have observed your colleagues to be genuinely caring and helpful towards you. This is a positive indication that they may be trustworthy. It is worth giving them the benefit of the doubt and taking small steps towards building trust by gradually opening up to them and engaging in work-related social activities.Keep in mind that trust takes time to develop. It is wise to be cautious and observe how your colleagues behave over an extended period before fully placing your trust in them. Take note of their consistency, reliability, and integrity in their interactions with both you and others. Building trust is a two-way process, and it is equally important to show your colleagues that you too can be trusted.Additionally, it can be beneficial to communicate your concerns and past experiences with a trusted supervisor or manager. They can provide guidance and support in navigating workplace relationships and help address any issues that may arise.Remember, every professional relationship is unique, and while it is vital to protect yourself from potential harm, it is also important not to miss out on genuine connections and opportunities for collaboration. By being open-minded, observant, and setting clear boundaries, you can gradually rebuild your trust in colleagues while still prioritizing your well-being.
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